but we have time

so i told cheryl just minutes ago over the phone that we should start looking for a dj. she starts complaining that she doesn't want to rush things, she's still looking for a dress, that we have time, blah blah blah.

i try to explain to her that if we get rid of all this sort of stuff now, it's less we have to worry about later. all she kept saying was but we have time...do we have to do that now?...

for the first time in my life i want to be ahead of the game instead of waiting until the last minute and cheryl, who not so long again was freaking out about how little time we have, wants to slow things done. auugghhh....